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My Story

Breaking a Family Cycle & Reclaiming My Life


The men in my family have long shared a painful pattern — neglecting their own well being. Both of my grandfathers passed before I was born, and when I was just 18, my father died at 52 from complications related to diabetes. I didn’t realize it then, but I was already walking the same path.

By January 2015, at age 36, I hit my own breaking point. My weight was climbing toward 300 lbs, my blood pressure had soared into the 200s, and I was numbing depression and anxiety through binge eating and drinking. Living with visual impairment and chronic pain only intensified the spiral. I was surviving, not living.

What I didn’t realize at the time was that my awareness had narrowed into a kind of tunnel vision — fixated on misfortune, loss, and everything I perceived as “wrong.” I had forgotten how to notice the beauty that was still around me: the hum of a hummingbird outside my window, the scent of a rose on a spring morning, the joy of a slow, mindful meal, the warmth of conversation, the spark of learning something new.


Mindfulness changed everything.


Through practice, I began to reclaim my attention, my health, and my life. I learned to shift from unconscious negativity to intentional awareness. I learned to see what was already here.


In 2022, I completed the UCLA Trained Mindfulness Facilitator program and became certified through both the UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center and the International Mindfulness Teachers Association. Since 2017, I’ve been teaching mindfulness with one purpose: to help others discover what becomes possible when they learn to truly pay attention.


This practice saved my life. Now, I’m here to help you explore how it might transform yours.


You’re invited to explore the resources on this site and reach out if you’d like to create a personalized mindfulness practice tailored to your lifestyle. I’d be honored to walk that path with you.

Education

2022

UCLA

Trained Mindfulness Facilitator

Mindful Awareness Research Center

2007

CSUN

Master of Arts

Master of Social Work;

General Practice with Urban Families

2004

CSUN

Bachelor of Arts Sociology

Criminology and Corrections

Certifications

2022

International Mindfulness Teachers Association

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2023

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Marquis Who's Who Honored Listee

Additional Training

2023

Healing Racialized Trauma

Somatic Abolitionism for Every Body

Resmaa Menakem

2023

Life Optimization Methodology

Perfectly Here Course

Manijeh Motaghy

2019

School of Awakening

Eckhart Tolle and Kim En

2018

San Fernando Valley TM Center

Introduction to

Transcendental Meditation

Jim & Nina Meade

Media Appearances

Testimonies on Mindfulness
“I stumbled onto mindfulness in my late teens/early twenties. I remember the moment very clearly. It was a rainy night and I was out with a friend. To say I was depressed would be an understatement. I was confused and lost in my place in this world. I was out partying a lot and avoiding my emotions and chasing highs. I had no idea what direction I wanted to go in life. While walking through a bookstore, I saw this book titled "When Things Fall Apart" by Pema Chodron. I had no idea that it was about meditation or Buddhism. I just had this very strong pull to read this book. I was running out of options and thought, why not?
From the very 1st chapter, my life changed. More specifically, my perspective on life changed. This was the beginning of my venture into mindfulness and meditation. With practice, I gained the ability to see value in my life. I learned how to be present and authentic with myself and those around me in a way that I previously did not know was possible. As situations arose, I could now see them through a clearer lens and be appreciative of the ebb and flow of life. Bottom line, my narrative shifted from that of a victim, to being an active witness and participant on my unfolding path. The impact was so significant that eventually I decided to leave my high stress, large salary management position, and adopt a career path that allows me to be balanced and help others along the way. I can truly say I have zero regrets.
Now don't get me wrong. Not everything's is peachy and perfect. I definitely still have my bad days, but my ability to hold space and respond to situations is drastically different from the person who used to avoid problems. Whereas before I would sit and marinate in my emotions, I now have more ease in being decisive and moving forward with life. Today, my practice allows me to have patience as difficult situations arise. I am able to be much more present with my partner, family, friends, and clients. In general, I possess much more appreciation and joy in my day to day. Love is everywhere, and it feels fantastic to be connected with it.”

©2023 - 2026 by Eric Cooley

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